The Buy Nothing, Get Everything Plan: Discover the Joy of Spending Less, Sharing More, and Living Generously by Liesl Clark and Rebecca Rockefeller
Format/source: ARC/Netgalley
Published: 14 April 2020
Publisher: Atria Books
Length: 288 pages
Genre: Non-fiction
Target Age: Adult (suitable for 13+)
I received a free copy from the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
Inspired by the ancient practice of gift economies, where neighbors share and pool resources, The Buy Nothing, Get Everything Plan introduces an environmentally conscious 7-step guide that teaches us how to buy less, give more, and live generously. At once an actionable plan and a thought-provoking exploration of our addiction to stuff, this powerful program will help you declutter your home without filling landfills, shop more thoughtfully and discerningly, and let go of the need to buy new things. Filled with helpful lists and practical suggestions including 50 items you never need to buy (Ziploc bags and paper towels) and 50 things to make instead (gift cards and salad dressing), The Buy Nothing, Get Everything Plan encourages you to rethink why you shop and embrace a space-saving, money-saving, and earth-saving mindset of buying less and sharing more.
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Review
I hadn’t heard of the Buy Nothing Project til I began reading this book. While it’s a little different from what I usually review, it caught my eye when I was poking around Netgalley. I requested it because buying reducing my purchases of new stuff (especially plastic and single use items) is a goal of mine for 2020. I don’t buy a lot of stuff but I know I can do better – not jumping to ‘new’ or ‘plastic’ when I do need to purchase something.
[Buy Nothing] is a philosophy that holds that the key to a joyful life of meaning and abundance on a healthy planet is to pursue every possible alternative before buying anything one wants or needs.
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Seven Steps
I started reading with a dose of skepticism. Is this book going to be fluffy or practical? The first part of the book is a bit removed from what I was looking for. After the first three introductory sections, the authors lay out their seven step plan. They describing the logic behind the action, relate anecdotes and reflections on the step, and suggesting concrete actions to enact that step.
- Give
- Ask
- Reuse & Refuse
- Reflect
- Make & Fix
- Share, Lend & Borrow
- Gratitude
Implementation
At the beginning, I thought “Okay, this book is more about sharing once you’ve already stopped buying and less about the initial step of ‘buying nothing'”. The first two steps are give and ask. These are interesting and good ideas, but to my way of thinking, they didn’t address how to ‘buy nothing’ in the way I was hoping for. However, the steps and suggestions proposed do eventually get to the practical points which were of most interest to me. The book contains a lot of anecdotes, especially at the beginning, but they provide context for the actionable ideas shared later on. I particularly liked the lists (ex. “10 Things to Reuse Instead of Toss”, “50 Things We Never Buy”) that gave me ideas for some of the niggly purchases/waste I hadn’t yet resolved – such as giving away parcel packaging.
Community Minded
The book also has a more radical tone than I expected. The main takeaway is about supporting community connections through sharing. As the authors note, participating in a sharing economy rather than participating in capitalism has some inherent radicalism in it. I wondered whether the authors would address cultures that have sharing-based economies, or how women are often expected to give, give, give, or how poverty intersects with these ideas – and they do. I appreciate that their ideas aren’t just framed for one type of person.
People who are struggling financially are bombarded with societal messages that their poverty is shameful, something to be hidden, and we internalize the message that only the financially well-off are “givers,” while those with fewer resources are inherently “takers.” […] Despite the fact that we all have needs and wants, and an innate ability and desire to both give and receive, there are no prescribed ways to do this on equal footing, person to person.
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This seven step plan hinges on idea of being able to participate in a hyper local sharing economy, where you can give and ask for items you would otherwise purchase. There are thousands of Buy Nothing groups organized on Facebook. I found and joined the one for my area. It only has around 40 members and isn’t very active. Other groups in different parts of the city have over 1,000; the authors point to 500 as the sweet spot for a successful sharing group. My sister joined the group in our hometown – it has 600 members. So your mileage may vary. The notion of fully participating in a sharing group may be idealistic for some of us, but I also found it inspiring. You have to start somewhere! You can see if your area has a Buy Nothing group here.
This Buying Nothing paradigm shift has grown internationally, and scaled quickly, because it’s filling a deep need that’s been missing in our collective consciousness: the need to share, to connect, to conserve, and to strengthen our resilience through community.
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The Bottom Line
While the sharing economy may not be the most practical option for readers looking to reduce their environmental footprint by purchasing less, The Buy Nothing, Get Everything Plan offers many concrete ideas for changing your everyday consumption while strengthening your community.
Further Reading
- Buy Nothing Project
- Article from HuffPost
I already try not to buy very much both because I don’t have a large income and because I think it’s just irresponsible to buy a bunch of stuff that you will use one time and then will toss. I keep reading articles saying that even stuff you recycle might end up in an landfill and stuff you donate to charity shops might, as well. Every article has stated that the best way to be environmentally conscious is not to buy stuff in the first place.
The downside to this is that I am experiencing that there is a sort of social stigma attached to being seen as “cheap.” People don’t understand people who lead different lifestyles. At best, you are thought weird. At worst, people will see you as stingy and anti-social, and they may start to cut you off because you aren’t seen as fun or generous if you’re not the person throwing huge parties for all your friends and coworkers, or whatever.
I don’t mind buying stuff I can use for a long time or that I can share. Things like board games are good because they last for years and the fun goes on indefinitely after a one-time purchase. But even stuff like that I would love to be able to borrow from the library. I think it’s great when an entire community can share and benefit from resources. However, I do think the culture of consumerism makes leading an alternative lifestyle difficult sometimes.
The pandemic has kind of changed things, as well, and highlighted for me some of the difficulties in trying to live more minimalistically. I don’t have much at home. I was very reliant on using the library for resources and now I don’t have that. And now everyone is doing all these fancy craft or planting programs and so forth, but I don’t own all the stuff they have. In the past, I could go to a library program and they would provide the materials, but watching librarians make online videos and plant their gardens outside their large homes just highlights the fact that I don’t have the money or ability to create a fancy garden like this myself. I also can’t help but wonder where they got potting soil and all that when we’re only supposed to be leaving home for essentials and no one is shipping anything here anymore. But that’s a separate issue.
I think it makes so much sense to do this kind of sharing within communities. I’d heard of “buy nothing” but I didn’t realize it was such a group. I’ll definitely look more into that.
When I lived in the States I joined local Freecycle groups which have the similar goal of sharing unwanted items that might otherwise get thrown away. I always found that very helpful.
Ah, Freecycle sounds familiar. I will look into it for my area. When I started reading this book, I thought it was a bold claim they made to have started a global movement… there are quite a few groups that have the same goal, but I realized the Buy Nothing Project has a slightly different approach with their emphasis on community strengthening.
This sounds really interesting! The list in particular do sound helpful, as I’m also looking to reduce my use of disposable items.
That’s great! You might find some good tips here.